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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
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Why do you do this?I enjoy speaking to people - both those close to home, and from all over the world. Doing this gives me the opportunity to speak to people from all backgrounds and all countries. I find it fascinating how unique everyone is and how they all see the world around them differently. I also have a real interest in the "style" of the people I speak to - style is as unique as the individual wearing it - but it extends beyond clothes too - hairstyles, accessories, shoes etc. I really like to learn more about it from everyone I speak to.
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How long have you been doing this for?I have been chatting to people online, and offering to pay them for their time since around 2014 - so a good few years now! Today, it is probably the 'hobby' I spend the most time on - and almost certainly the most money on!
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What do you get out of this?I get the opportunity to speak to people from all over the world, who I wouldn't usually get the chance to speak to. I can't deny, I also get a bit of a buzz out of knowing that the people I speak to profit from the experience. I like to hear about what you spend the money on! I like that feeling of having been a bit 'useful' I guess? It's that simple! I enjoy doing this - else I wouldn't keep doing it!
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Are you just lonely?No lonelier than anyone else, I don't think! I have plenty of friends and family I speak to all the time. This is a bit different though - it's a different kind of arrangement - one I happen to really enjoy!
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Is this a sexual thing?Not at all, no. I am asexual - I have no interest in sex, nudity, or anything of the sort - either on video calls, or in person. That is not what I'm looking for.
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How many people do you do this with?That is a surprisingly difficult question to answer accurately! On average, I probably speak to about 7-8 people per week - but in total, I am probably in communication with maybe 20 individuals? Over the years - I have had this arrangement with a large number of people - and am very pleased to say that a good few of those I started speaking to back in 2014, I still speak to regularly today.
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How often do you do this?It varies a bit - but I am online most evenings, I tend to average around 7-8 video calls per week.
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What would a call be like?Video calls with me don't really differ from a normal conversation in terms of content. In a first call, I like to get to know you a bit more; what you enjoy doing, how you like to spend your time etc. I usually ask some questions about you, to better understand what you like, what you don't - but obviously, if you don't want to answer something - we can just move on! If you'd like to know anything about me, I'm happy to share - or we can keep you as the main subject - whichever you prefer! The main difference between this conversation and any other, is at the end, where I send you a summary of how much money you've earned, and send it over - before hopefully scheduling our next call!
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What will we talk about?Anything and everything! I like to hear about you - what you enjoy, what you like to do in your spare time etc. We can talk about current events if that interests you, your plans for the future... Really - there are no set subjects. Your imagination is the only limitation! I do have a particular interest in the "style" of the people I speak to
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How long is an average video call?I usually aim at a call lasting around an hour... but it's entirely flexible. If the conversation is flowing, and we both have time, it can run longer than that - if you're in a hurry, we can cut it short. Your fee covering your time is calculated to the second - so you'll always be paid fairly, no matter how long or short the call is.
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I can't speak out loud - can I just type?Of course - that's absolutely fine. I understand that sometimes privacy can be an issue, especially if you share a house. As it happens, I usually prefer to type myself - still on cam, but typing, rather than talking out loud. You do what makes you feel most comfortable. :-)
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Can I see you before we video call?Yes, that can be arranged! I don't publish my photo here for privacy reasons. But if you're serious about having a chat, send me a message, and we can sort something out, so you know who you'll be talking to.
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Why do you want to talk to me?The reasons why I make contact with people like this are many and varied. If you're particularly interested in understanding the reason for you specifically - we can absolutely discuss that - just drop me a message! There aren't many set rules about who, or what 'type' of person I like chatting to.
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Do you speak to guys and girls?In all but the most exceptional circumstances, I only pay to speak to guys. The same goes for the other various services I offer. Rest assured, that's not for any "sexual" reason. I'm asexual, and have no interest in anything like that!
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English isn't my first language, is that OK?"Of course. A lot of the people I speak to regularly only speak English as a second language. In my experience, people who speak English as a foreign language can have a better grip of it than some native English speakers! Please don't worry about it - I am sure we can make each other understood, and if not - translation services are available!
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How much will I get paid?That's negotiable. We will work out your fee as one of the first things we discuss, to ensure this whole arrangement is mutually beneficial. We can discuss that, and agree on the figure either as part of our first call or before that, if you prefer. Use the 'Contact Jack' page, or click 'LIVE CHAT WITH JACK' at the bottom of the page to start the conversation!
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How will I get my money?The easiest option is PayPal. That's quick, easy, trustworthy and handles currency conversions with ease. Alternatively, I can use Cash App, Revolut, TransferGo, Circle Pay or Western Union . Amazon Gift Cards or Wishlist purchases are also an option. For those in the UK, I can also pay using an online banking transfer (BACS). Whatever your situation, I am sure we can find an option that works for us both.
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Can you pay me up-front?I understand that you don't want your time wasted, if I turn out to be a scam. Please understand though - nor do I want my money wasted, if you turn out to be a scam! In most situations, I am willing to pay a small amount at the start of our first call, to prove that I am legitimate - with the remainder being paid at the end of the call. If you'd like to discuss that further, please Contact Jack, or use the 'LIVE CHAT WITH JACK' option at the bottom of the screen.
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Where do you get your money from?Just like everyone else - I have a job! I am lucky to have a relatively well-paid job, but spend very little of it on "going out" or anything like that. That leaves me with enough to enjoy my main hobby, which is this!
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Can you pay me more if I send you nudes?It's very kind of you to offer - but no, thank you. I am asexual, and have no interest in anything sexual, and don't want to see you naked - it just isn't what I'm looking for. There are plenty of opportunities to be paid a little more, if you're interested, once we get to know each other, which don't involve you stripping off!
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Can I remain anonymous?That is difficult (although not impossible) to achieve long-term. I have no desire to know all of your personal details, but in order to send you money, I need a few details, depending on which platform we use. I value the privacy of those I speak to very highly - no-one will ever know we have spoken, unless you tell them! I do not discuss one person I speak to with another - ever. If privacy is a serious concern - we can discuss the options around that. There is almost always a solution. The 'LIVE CHAT WITH JACK' option at the bottom of the page is entirely anonymous, if you'd like to discuss it there first.
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Will anyone ever find out I do this?Only if you tell them! I value the privacy of those I speak to very highly - I would never disclose any information to anyone about anything discussed, or even that I know you. In the past, I have even spoken to multiple members of the same family - without them knowing about each other! It is important to me that our conversations are a "safe place" - I would never betray that trust.
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How does the "Clothes Sale Service" work?"It aims to be as simple for you as possible. There are no requirements on what you include - age, style, condition etc. doesn't matter. - You find a box to hold everything you'd like sold (if you can't find one - I can have one sent to you) - I arrange a courier to collect the box from your address - or you can drop it off at a Post Office / local shop, if you prefer not to disclose your address. - When the box arrives with me, I will sort everything you've sent - where appropriate cleaning, ironing etc. - then I'll photograph everything, and write up descriptions, and list all the items for sale (on various platforms, depending on the item). - As the items sell, I will arrange to send them out to buyers. - 100% of the sale value will be transferred back to you via your preferred payment method.
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What happens to items that don't sell?Given enough time, and listing on the correct platforms - most items will sell, regardless of condition. However, in the event items do not sell, I am happy to offer a "Guarantee of Sale" - whereby I will pay you an agreed amount per item that cannot be otherwise sold. Once your payment has been made, the items will then be donated to charity or donated for recycling.
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Do you guarantee items will sell / earn me something?Yes! I offer a "Guarantee of Sale" for all items - we can agree this if you choose to go ahead. This means that you'll be assured of payment for every item - regardless of condition.
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What does "regardless of condition" mean?"It means I will accept items from you for sale, offering my "Guarantee of Sale" whether it's in perfect "as new" condition, or if it shows signs of wear, or even if it's completely worn out or damaged.
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What items will you accept for sale?Almost anything! All types of clothes, jackets, coats, shoes, accessories, jewellery etc...
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What if I know someone else who might be interested?That's great! One of the best ways for me to meet new people is through recommendations/referrals from people I already speak to. If you know someone who you think might be interested, you're welcome to introduce them to this website - or they can contact me directly? If you'd rather I reached out to them - I can do that too. Obviously they would be paid for their time on calls - but I'm also happy to pay you a 'cut' for having introduced them. This would be an ongoing arrangement, and can be discussed on a case-by-case basis.
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I was told about you by a friend - what do they get out of it?Do let me know if you heard about me from a friend - I will make sure they are suitably compensated for their efforts recommending my services. I don't discuss what they get out of it with you - if you'd like to know - I suggest you ask them!
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